1. When she sees her boyfriend talking to other girls..and the girl starts flirting...! ♥
2. when her boyfriend n her r texting/ instant messaging n the guy doesn't text her/msg her back fast enough...! ♥
3. when her boyfriend has the same class as her n he ignores her n hangs out with other friends...! ♥
4.when she sees her boyfriend checking out other girls while she's with him...! ♥
5. when she has to wait outside the movie theaters looking like a loner while she waits for her boyfriend that's 20 minutes late...! ♥
6. when her boyfriend acts like hes going to break up with her... he doesn't even have to act... its a vibe...! ♥
7. when she holds her hand out for her boyfriend to hold, and he jst keeps walking...! ♥
8. when her boyfriend acts like he is going to get her something special n he was just suggesting something... so she has to buy it herself...! ♥
9. when her boyfriend doesn't care abt her 1 week, 1 month, 1 year anniversary. n everything in between.. they r all special to her...! ♥
10. when she tells her boyfriend she loves him. n he says he loves her back, only bcoz he wants to get into her pants..! < / 3
So, Guys.. PLEASE don't do any of these...these r the reasons that can make a girl cry... there are more, but these are the some of the most important...! ♥ ♥ ♥
Mar 23, 2012
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10 THINGS THAT KILLS A GIRL...
In water, a can of Diet Coke floats while regular Coke sinks!
The artificial sweetener in Diet Coke is hundreds of times sweeter per unit volume than regular sugar. However, the sugar in regular Coke is denser, which makes it sink. Regular Coke contains almost 11 teaspoons of sugar per can! On average, Americans ingest 10.8 pounds of sugar per person each year from drinking Coca-Cola alone. Here are some other interesting facts about Coca-Cola products:
- The Coca-Cola brand is worth more than Budweiser, Pepsi, Starbucks and Redbull combined
- If every drop of Coke ever produced were put into 8 ounce bottles and laid end to end, they’d reach the moon and back over 2,000 times
- Coca-Cola spends more money on advertising than Microsoft and Apple combined
- The average Mexican drinks more Coke than the average American, British, Indian, and Chinese combined
When Facebook Pokes Get Physical
Facebook Chief Executive Officer Mark Zuckerberg may have invented poking online, but another invention translates the poke into a physical alert.Jasper van Loenen and Bartholomäus Traubeck demonstrated a device that does just that for The Next Web, the Poking Machine, explaining their motivation, aside from clearly having too much time on their hands:
Online social networks are platforms for communication, enabling us to connect anywhere we go. However, they still lack the mediation of physical communication.
Facebook tries to improve this by enabling its users to poke each other, which basically only sends another written message to the person you poke, without conveying the original intent of the poking gesture.
The Poking Machine converts the message into an actual physical poke, extending the reach of thishaptic gesture indefinitely. This way, users can connect not only virtually, but also physically.
How does it work? Here’s the explanation from van Loenen:
The setup consists of a custom-built circuit (ATtiny, servo, battery, and bluetooth module) that connects to an Android phone, letting it keep track of incoming pokes. The circuit is housed in a laser-cut box you can wear on your arm.
The Poke Machine reminds us of the light-up like notifier that interactive ad agency Redpepper made out of Legos about a year ago.
Readers: How much money would it take to get you to even consider strapping on the Poking Machine?
Picture This: Facebook Upgrades Photo Viewer
Facebook introduced two more upgrades to its photo viewer.
First, the social network said the photo viewer will now display photos in the highest resolution possible, potentially making them four times larger than in the past.
Second, Facebook users now have the option to expand the photo viewer across their entire screen. Firefox and Chrome users can do so by clicking the arrows in the top right-hand corner of photos.
Readers: Are there any other improvements you’d like to see Facebook add to its photo viewer?
Why don't women initiate sex?
It's been three years, but I am still desperately waiting for the day when my lady love will take the sexual lead and surprise me with her moves. Many times, I thought of discussing it with her, but dropped the idea as she may find it derogatory. Though we share a great chemistry, be it in or outside the bedroom, still I crave for the day when she would make the first move," confesses Samrat Tripathi, a 29-year-old Delhi-based media person.
Samrat isn't the only one craving for his girl to initiate the action in bed. "Is it just me who wants sex?", "Am I failing to satisfy her?", "Is my technique wrong?", "Does she wish for more pampering and initial plays?" are some of the thoughts that keep haunting men. This thought process keeps them so occupied that most of the time they fail to see some of the very obvious reasons for their problem.
It takes no rocket science to understand your beloved's physical needs, you just need to be caring and sensitive to figure out what's stopping her from making the first move. Here are some of the most common reasons holding her back...
Will he respond?
Many women with fragile ego find it difficult to kick start the action in the bedroom, as the fear of rejection keeps hounding them.
Aarti Rawat, a call centre executive says, "I am not afraid of telling my boyfriend what I need from him, but something holds me back initiating sex. Guys are so complicated and it's difficult to understand their needs so I keep guessing what's on his mind. I can just give him subtle signals like rubbing my cheeks against his or a passionate kiss to reveal my innate desires, but most of the times he fails to understand my hidden passion within these moves. It obviously hurts me so, even if I want to, so I let him take the lead."
Expert speak: Dr Himanshu Saxena, a relationship expert opines, "Men are more vocal about their sexual desires than women, that is one of the reasons they end up initiating sex almost always. Everybody loves to be on the receiving end and may be she doesn't mind it. So, if you want to turn the tables, then practice some self-control. Maybe for a couple of days, seduce her the way you always do. Wear the smell that she loves, give her a soothing massage, a luscious kiss, after you realize that she is getting turned on, gradually pull away. If you continue this for a few days, she might not be left with any option but to drag you to bed and take charge to sustain a night of pleasure."
He might make fun of me!
Some men are really critical when it comes to love-making and that is why their partners believe in just following the lead.
Sunaina Verma, a corporate communication manager with a firm adds, "I was seeing this guy for nearly two years. Though I was deeply in love with him, but he I felt his love-making skills were very amateurish. He was so focused on what he wanted that he usually used to forget my comfort levels. Therefore, to tell him what I wanted, I decided to take the lead one day. I had read that guys love being kissed all over while making out, but the trick didn't work for me. After 15-20 minutes of my hard work he said, 'don't treat me like candy, its no fun.' It was humiliating for me."
Expert speak: Dr Sameer Parekh, a noted psychiatrist says, "Everybody has their own comfort zones and pleasure points. If you do not like your beloved's love-making techniques, rather than making fun of her, tell her what makes you go week in the knees. Make love to her the way you want her to treat you. Criticizing her will only hurt and will not help either of you. If you don't behave properly, she might not ever dare to try anything new to please you."
Baby it hurts
The definition of enjoyment might be completely different for you and your wife.
Nita Sahni, a homemaker informs, "I got married a couple of months back. It almost took us a month for me to get completely at ease with my hubby. As a result of my fear of physical proximity, I used to withdraw from my hubby. I noticed a great deal of disappointment in my hubby because of that. I decided to keep silent about my discomfort and just go ahead with sex mechanically."
Expert speak: "Encountering pain during sex is the most common problem that most of couples face, but finding a solution is necessary. Sometimes the reason can be just change in sexual behavior or inadequate inital play. But in some cases, you may have to seek medical help. Your partner might be suffering from a sexually transmitted disease. Therefore act responsibly and take note of what's bothering your better half," tells Dr Saxena.
Not tonight honey!
How often do you hear this? But merely blaming your partner for never being in the mood is not fair.
Sheela Oberoi, a school teacher says, "I am in my mid 30s, have a family to look after and a job that consumes nearly ten hours everyday. When I go back to my bedroom at 11 o'clock in the night, I am left with no energy to do sex. May be my age has also affected my sex interest. Many times my hubby complains about it, but there is nothing I am able to do about my low sex interest."
Expert speak: "If your partner's interest in sex has dropped significantly, try to make make an effort to find out what is it that is responsible for the same. If it is just stress and fatigue, then you should find out ways to relive the mental tension. Be it a surprise vacation, an encouraging massage or just an elongated conversation at a lavish dinner - try out diverse ways to take your lover's mind off the nitty gritties of life. And never forget to experiment in bed," suggests Dr Parekh.
She thinks it's a taboo
Do guys really think highly of girls who take the lead in sex? Many girls grow up with this question in their mind.
Sawati Arora, a bank employee says, "I am getting married in a few months, but I have no plans to take the lead in bed with my future hubby. My friends have made me believe that if I do so, he may think that I have had some past experience and may doubt my loyalty. According to the normal perception, guys are supposed to initiate things in bed and I plan to stick to the same."
Expert speak: Dr Mittal says, "Most of new age women also have this fact imprinted in their mind somewhere. So you should make all possible efforts to erase these doubts from her mind forever. On a date, try to talk to her about what turns her on and how eagerly you want her to make efforts to pamper you in bed. She may take sometime to get okay with the idea, but if you try to make her comfortable, soon she will express her desires in every possible way."
Employing the subtle tricks of engaging her in sexual activities, patience and some sexperiment you are likely to get what you have been vying for.
by RITU VERMA
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