It’s not easy to flirt, especially when you can’t get to spend some time alone with the special someone. But you can still get your message across with a flirting touch, and without overdoing it. Learn the secrets behind how to flirt by touch without saying a word.
The secret of a flirting touch
Ever felt a tingle of excitement rush up your spine when a good looking person of the opposite sex brushes your arm for no apparent reason?
Well, you’re not alone. An unexpected touch can be warm and fuzzy to just about anyone, and it’s always a great way to show that you have something more than ‘just friends’ in mind.
Another person’s touch (we’re talking about the opposite sex here!) is always soothing, and yet, at the same time, leaves us feeling flushed and slightly uncomfortable. But, one can’t help but want more.
Body language flirting by touch
A guy who gets touched by a girl in the middle of a conversation can’t help but connect to her sexually, and a girl who feels the palm of a guy guide her lower back unexpectedly can’t help feeling the tingle rush down her spine.
It happens naturally, doesn’t it?
There may have been times when you are in the middle of a sleepy conversation while this friend just drones on and on about the problems they’re having with their third aunt’s great grandmother. But then, when this friend grasps your palm gently and asks you for an opinion, you can’t help but slip up a bit, and pull yourself together.
It’s not because you were touched by the boring story, but because you suddenly warmed up to this friend, and just for that instant, you actually realized that your chat-mate is a member of the opposite sex.
And just for that one moment, thoughts of more than just holding hands flash across your mind. Yeah, yeah… I know you’ve felt that. You don’t need to squirm and protest. And the surprising fact about it is that, it happens to everybody! Irrespective of how good looking or charming either of you are. But yeah, it can get creepy if the touch lingers too long!
Why do we get excited by a flirting touch?
So why does this happen? Why do we (even if it is for just an instant) get attracted sexually to this friend all of a sudden, just because of a simple unexpected touch? Well, you see, it’s all in our head. Our minds are programmed in such a way that a human touch triggers a positive feeling within us.
Real life flirting touches and emotional connections
And this makes a huge impact on who we get attracted to. The impact of touch is a lot stronger than our senses of sight, smell, or sound. Let’s just contemplate over this thought.
Now why do you think people find it a lot easier to open up while partying? And why is it that it’s so easy to kiss someone on the dance floor, even if it’s just friends? No, it’s not the booze and the music (though they do play a small part). It’s actually all in the power of playful touching. Our sense of touch is so strong when it comes to attraction of the sexes that it overpowers all other senses put together, albeit momentarily, or until one of you get back to your senses.
That means you can simply touch a member of the opposite sex the right way and attract them, better than you would have been able to do in any other way.
The sense of touch in humans is so sensitive because of today’s society. When someone whom you know as “just a friend” holds your hand accidentally, it comes as a surprise. Can you remember the last time you were in a situation where another person of the opposite sex touched you flirtatiously? You sure can’t forget that person, can you? The fact that you can remember that flirty person so easily just demonstrates the power of the flirting touch.
The art of flirting by touch
Flirting by accidental touch doesn’t mean manhandling and pawing at the other person. It’s the subtle art of drawing a person closer to you with your lingering touch. But this form of flirting is never easy, and there’s a lot more chance of you being labeled slutty or horny rather than a cool cat.
Some people touch all the time, which makes decoding these signs all the more harder. But if you know how to go about it the right way, and compliment your accidental touches with your tone and body language, you won’t just get the message across, you’ll have your date all over you!
Learn the art of flirting by touch and learn to flirt and seduce someone into liking you in no time.
