When caught between two potential life partners, there are some big questions to ask yourself before making your big decision. For example, who knows you better? Who is aware of your weaknesses and can accept you for who you are? Who understands you the best? Who loves you more?
If you are serious about someone and can truly feel that you love them, do they even love you back? Are they someone who will keep you happy for the rest of your life or only temporarily? A relationship needs mutual understanding and mutual love and support. One who will never think ill of you is one who you will definitely feel great with.
Who do you have more in common with? Try to think about which person has a similar way of thinking as you or at least a way of thought that suits your way of thought. You need good communication with your partner so are you able to communicate effectively with him or her?
After asking yourself all of these questions, it is now time to listen to your heart’s answers. You should trust your heart at all costs and listen to what it has to say. Your heart will guide you in the right direction towards eternal happiness with your partner. If you ignore what your heart says, you will find much regret in the future as your heart’s feelings will never go away.
You might feel that you can answer “both of them” to all of these questions. Keep in mind though that no man or no woman can ever love two partners. Once you have chosen the partner of your dreams, make it work and commit 110% of your love and life to them. You chose them for a reason so do not look back and do not show any signs of regret, even if you find yourself in arguments and conflicts with him or her down the road. This will be key to having a happy and successful life and relationship.
