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Aug 31, 2011

Focussing on partner's looks may ruin relationship

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Concentrating on your partners' physical attractiveness may make you less happy in relationships, according to a new study.

The study also found that magazines and movies that portray people as sex objects can cause you to see your partner in that light, though not yourself, reports Live Science.

Self-objectification; when a person is obsessively concerned about how he or she looks; has been shown to affect women's self-image, school performance and life happiness. But this quality hasn't been studied much in the context of romantic relationships.

Partner-objectification, where that focus is placed on a partner's physical qualities over everything else, hasn't been studied at all in this context.

"If you have these kinds of thoughts and beliefs about your partner, it might be a block that stops you from having that intimacy, which is important in relationships," said study researcher Eileen Zurbriggen of the University of California, Santa Cruz.

For her study, Zurbriggen polled 159 sophomores at her university. The students were asked to fill out a survey on their romantic relationships (current or previous), their media consumption and their feelings of objectification.

Objectification was measured by how strongly the students agreed or disagreed with statements such as: "I rarely think about how I/my partner looks"; "I rarely compare how I/my partner looks with how others look"; and "I often worry about whether the clothes I'm/my partner is wearing make me/them look good."

The men showed higher levels of partner-objectification than the women, but both reported similar levels of self-objectification, in contrast to previous studies.

Women are traditionally believed to be more self-objectifying.

Based on the participants' responses, Zurbriggen found that the greater their consumption of objectifying media of all kinds, the more likely they were to focus on their partner's looks.

Zurbriggen found that partner-objectification lowered relationship satisfaction, as well as men's sexual satisfaction.

"This could be because concentrating on your partner's attractiveness tends to make you less concerned with your partner as a whole, leading to a less satisfying relationship and decreased intimacy," she said.

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Sweeter Sides of Life (Life Humor)



 
 

[2] Better Dead than Alive
 
A bachelor Man asked his physician, "I Want to live healthy and longer."
The Doctor advised, "Good thought, Get married."
The man asked, "Oh you mean the exercise of sex will make me live longer."
The Doctor said, "No it is the want of sex that will kill your thought."
 

[3] An Alien Observation
 
"A great handshake was observed in two humans of opposite sex
at a wedding ring before a deadly bout of Lifetime."
 

[4] Respect to a Dead Union
 
A husband reminded the wife, "Tomorrow is our wedding anniversary
and I want to start the day with two minute's in silence."
 

[5] Love Kills
 
Marry with Love or have someone arrange it for you and then love.
What the hell is the difference? Ultimate is the same, "Suicide of
Harakiri or Killing of Guillotine."
 

[6] Strange Divinity
 
And God makes such a beautiful, lovely, pleasant, marvelous
creature as woman for man, then suddenly he turns around and
sticks him as wife.
 

[7] Senseless and Careless
 
A man before marriage stays awake happily whole night contemplating
about the wordage of lover woman.
Then after marriage he starts snoring faster then loving wife utters
the first word.
 

[8] Wise Saying
 
Your money gets transferred faster than lightning When you marry.
 

[9] For unmarried only
 
"Happy Independence Day."
 

[10] Grass is greener on other side
 
Getting married is very much like going to a restaurant with friends.
You order the best dish of your choice from the menu and yet damn
you find your friend's dish more alluring.
 

[11] Decent Burial
 
A just recently divorced, hit hard, badly publicized, rich man received a telegram.
"Your Ex-wife dead. Advise preference burial or cremation? Funeral cost you pay."
The man quickly responded, "Burn the Body high flames and Bury the Ash deep grounds. I pay all the expenses."
 

[12] Wild Fiction
 
A just engaged man goes in the Library to search books on "The sex and my woman."
He asked the female librarian, "Ma' am, I want the book something like, "Master of my woman."
The librarian advised, "Our fiction and fantasy books are in the basement."
 

[13] Promise Keeper
 
Once a man told then his lover, "Marry me, I would even go to hell for you."
The girl trusted the promise and married him.
The Man kept his words, "He is going through the hell of his life for now his wife."
 

[14] Never drying tears
 
A woman brings you in this world with you crying and other one keeps you alive in this world with you crying.
 

[15] Law of Double Jeopardy
 
The Law does not permit a man to marry a second woman.
The Law cannot punish a man twice for the same offence!

How The Times Have Changed


How The Times Have Changed

It's not easy to pay $2.00 for a cup of coffee. Especially when you see what it cost in 1960. That and everything else! You'll be amazed when you look back at what some things cost in 1960.







































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11 Things The Richest American Could Buy For The U.S


11 Things The Richest American Could Buy For The U.S

The 400 richest US households' combined wealth of $1.37 trillion dollars is pretty difficult to visualize. Thankfully, faireconomy.org put together an infographic to describe just how much that money could do to help the general public.

http://img268.imageshack.us/img268/2741/ufe11thingsinfographic.jpg

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Funny eBay Auctions


Funny eBay Auctions

Every now and then we heard of people selling interesting stuff or even put themselves up for sale on eBay. This has made eBay one of the most interesting portal for people to search for things they want to buy or things that they cannot get locally.

These are some interesting and funny eBay auctions which have caught my attention (some of them may still running live in auction). I have decided to list them down here for sharing:





























































































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